Marriage
hmmmmmmm you know this topic is the topic of choice for any two males talking together .. and not having anything to talk about .. it is like talking about weather for british ..
when to get married ??? is the one million dolar question .. give me the million and i dont want to marry hehe ,, any way , I mean when to marry .. during school ? after school >> beforee 30 .. after 30 .. is it about money ? i mean when ever you have the financial dependecy you can think about marriage or is it about the emotional or brain level. some said whenever you find the right perosn !! some said whenever you grown up ! !! i dont know really every one I discuss this topic with have his / her own idea ..,, amean yes i know there is no definitive answer to this question i am smart enoght to know this .. but what do you think even for married ppl ..
marriage at old age give you the experience .. you will be grown up you will choose the right person probably .. financialy wise you will be independent hopfully .. emotionally your brain will take over you heart more .. so you have a better judge ..
so seems marriage at older age is better right ??
well BUT .. marrige at older age have two disadvantages two main disadvantages ..
the first one .. childeren .. you gonna have child at the age 35.. .when he become 20 you will be 55 a retired old man/woman !!! and you cant be his/her freind cause you will be old style in his/her eye !!!!
second thing .. finding the right person at this age is more difficult .. since ( for men ) you have to marry younger females .. and i hate this i'd like to marry some one in my age .. same metality you know .. i dont want this 10 years diffrent .. that when i was in university she was learning her ABCD
yes that what i believe that niether are right somaybe better no to marry :P no i am kidding .. but still i dont have the magical answer when to marry ??
see you soon !! and pray for me i have exam on Sat ..
when to get married ??? is the one million dolar question .. give me the million and i dont want to marry hehe ,, any way , I mean when to marry .. during school ? after school >> beforee 30 .. after 30 .. is it about money ? i mean when ever you have the financial dependecy you can think about marriage or is it about the emotional or brain level. some said whenever you find the right perosn !! some said whenever you grown up ! !! i dont know really every one I discuss this topic with have his / her own idea ..,, amean yes i know there is no definitive answer to this question i am smart enoght to know this .. but what do you think even for married ppl ..
marriage at old age give you the experience .. you will be grown up you will choose the right person probably .. financialy wise you will be independent hopfully .. emotionally your brain will take over you heart more .. so you have a better judge ..
so seems marriage at older age is better right ??
well BUT .. marrige at older age have two disadvantages two main disadvantages ..
the first one .. childeren .. you gonna have child at the age 35.. .when he become 20 you will be 55 a retired old man/woman !!! and you cant be his/her freind cause you will be old style in his/her eye !!!!
second thing .. finding the right person at this age is more difficult .. since ( for men ) you have to marry younger females .. and i hate this i'd like to marry some one in my age .. same metality you know .. i dont want this 10 years diffrent .. that when i was in university she was learning her ABCD
yes that what i believe that niether are right somaybe better no to marry :P no i am kidding .. but still i dont have the magical answer when to marry ??
see you soon !! and pray for me i have exam on Sat ..
posted by Sowhat at
3:45 PM
7 Comments:
Well , you will want to marry to fullfil your human needs. To be a loving father and a loyal husband and I say , it is the best thing that happens to us when we marry the right one.
I mean , As long as you find her , the rest fits in. I think.
being a married woman, I think the right decision I took was to marry at a young age (I am 21 and my husband was 22) .. It gave us the oppertunity to mature togther and so understand each other more ..
but each have thier own style, what might suite me might not suit you :)
Marriage is a time when a person can commit to another and give his/her all to make a relationship work. I see so many young adolescents getting married without a clue as to the expectations required. You need to be ready mentality to share your life with another human being.
Another aspect of this is that there is no right age or time, a person should be determine themselves to know when would be the right time…and inshallah with the right person who would make them happen.
lym partially i disagree with you... yes fnding the right person is so important but there are many other things to think about it .. but yeah what you said it true ..
Kaza :) do you think so :) but am not lybian and for sure am not cute :P
Arabian orincess welcome to my blog :) unfortunatly i passed this age :( and you are so right about each one have his / her own style ..
Warda you know what you just hit the truth .. this is my problem i think i still cant take the commitment of marriage .. still find it difficult ..
Tpyo: should be able to determine themselves*
Sowhat , I said the rest fits in , because one you find the one you want , you will work to fulfill the other requirments for marriage.
Kaza it is wrrten in my profile am 24 yrs old ..
Lym .. yep .. somehow you convinced me :)
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